In the Wake · Companion album

The photographs around the story

Seventy-three photographs from the indexed September 2026 batch. Three additional images were deliberately reserved for the narrative itself; the still-unindexed photographs are not included yet.

Editorial approach

Not every good photograph belongs in the prose.

The main story uses photographs sparingly, only when they deepen a scene, relationship or theme. This album preserves the wider texture: the people, trips, training, jokes, landscapes and ordinary moments that made those years what they were.

Dates and identifications follow Brian’s September 2026 intake notes. Approximate dates remain approximate; uncertain identities are not silently “fixed.”

01
1999–2004

Joining the Cadet Wing

Enlistment, basic training, the first year at RMC, the obstacle course and the moment recruit term finally gave way to belonging.

12 photographs
Cadets Marching - Brian included
Cadets Marching - Brian included. Kingston, On, 2000.20260901_115220.jpg
Cadets Marching - Brian included
Cadets Marching - Brian included. Kingston, On, 2000.20260901_115324.jpg
Brian
Basic training in St-Jean-sur-Richelieu, 1999. One of the few surviving photographs from a period Brian remembers with considerably less affection than the later RMC years.20260901_115501.jpg
Brian and Rob Wojokowski
Brian and Rob Wojokowski at CFB London on the evening Brian was sworn into the Canadian Armed Forces, 1999 — before basic training made the commitment feel quite so real.20260901_115525.jpg
Nathan, Krista (his date), Stephanie Cain (my gf), Brian
Nathan, Krista (his date), Stephanie Cain (my gf), Brian. RMC - Fort LaSalle 4 sqn residence, 1999.20260901_115541.jpg
Michael Lefebvre, George Lefebvre, and Me
Michael Lefebvre, George Lefebvre and Brian at RMC, 1999. Brian had not seen his family for months during recruit term.20260901_115630.jpg
Cadets Marching - Brian included
Cadets Marching - Brian included. RMC parade square, 1999.20260901_115642.jpg
Brian, Members of the 4 Squadron Cadet and Military Leadership
The third-floor landing of Fort LaSalle, 1999. Near the end of a gruelling recruit day, Brian and the other recruits were surprised with an official welcome into 4 Squadron — with their parents watching.20260901_115731.jpg
Brian, Members of the 4 Squadron Cadet and Military Leadership
Brian, Members of the 4 Squadron Cadet and Military Leadership. landing of the third floor of Fort LaSalle at RMC - the home of 4 Sqn, 1999.20260901_115743.jpg
Brian and Members of Four Squadron, Kaeble Flight
Brian and Members of Four Squadron, Kaeble Flight. In front of the Stone Frigate on the RMC Campus, 1999.20260901_115809.jpg
Brian and Members of Four Squadron, Kaeble Flight
Brian and Members of Four Squadron, Kaeble Flight. In front of the Stone Frigate on the RMC Campus, 1999.20260901_115827.jpg
Brian and Members of Four Squadron, Kaeble Flight
Brian and Members of Four Squadron, Kaeble Flight. In front of the Stone Frigate on the RMC Campus, 1999.20260901_115839.jpg
02
1999–2004

Back to Eckernförde

The millennium brought an unexpected gift: extended leave during the Y2K uncertainty and a return to the Miertsch family and friends in Eckernförde.

9 photographs
Desi the Dog
Desi in Eckernförde during Brian’s millennium return visit, 1999. Y2K worries had unexpectedly produced extended leave for first-year cadets.20260901_115912.jpg
Bente Weissman and Martin Miertsch
Bente Weissman and Martin Miertsch. Eckernfoerde, Germany, 1999.20260901_115928.jpg
Brian Lefebvre and Stephanie Cain - my girlfriend
Brian Lefebvre and Stephanie Cain - my girlfriend. Eckernfoerde, Germany, 1999.20260901_115944.jpg
left person can't remember -= Brian, Martin Miertsch and Phillilp Beyer - a best bud from my exchange year.
left person can't remember -= Brian, Martin Miertsch and Phillilp Beyer - a best bud from my exchange year. Eckernfoerde, Germany, 1999.20260901_115958.jpg
can't remember - basketball buddy too
can't remember - basketball buddy too. Eckernfoerde, Germany, 1999.20260901_120010.jpg
Pischi and Chrissi Miertsch - these two were THE couple when I was on exchange.. Still an item here in 1999.
Pischi and Chrissi Miertsch - these two were THE couple when I was on exchange.. Still an item here in 1999. Eckernfoerde, Germany, 1999.20260901_120033.jpg
Lily - Lily was such a sweet person; she and I were good friends when I was in Eckernfoerde on exchange. Even then, kind women helped make me feel welcome.
Lily - Lily was such a sweet person; she and I were good friends when I was in Eckernfoerde on exchange. Even then, kind women helped make me feel welcome. Eckernfoerde, Germany, 1999.20260901_120058.jpg
Just me - with Martin and Achim's hunting trophies in the background. This was shot in the Party Room - lotsa fun basement party memories!
Just me - with Martin and Achim's hunting trophies in the background. This was shot in the Party Room - lotsa fun basement party memories!. Eckernfoerde, Germany, 1999.20260901_120112.jpg
My german exhcnage girl network who always made me feel welcome and included!
My german exhcnage girl network who always made me feel welcome and included!. Eckernfoerde, Germany, 1999.20260901_120126.jpg
03
1999–2004

Roads East

After language training came one of the first great road trips: PEI, Johnny Coffin’s family, fresh lobster, a wedding in Truro and the sort of stories that only improve with distance.

10 photographs
Johnny Coffin, Sandy Reibin and G
Johnny Coffin, Sandy Reibin and G. Johnny's House, PEI, 2000.20260901_120138.jpg
Johnny and his Parents
Johnny and his Parents. Johnny's House, PEI, 2000.20260901_120148.jpg
Brian and a Fresh Lobster - pulled out of the PEI waters by some of Johnny's clan who dove down to get them!
Brian and a Fresh Lobster - pulled out of the PEI waters by some of Johnny's clan who dove down to get them!. Johnny's House, PEI, 2000.20260901_120200.jpg
Brian and Gion and the POTATO GUN
Brian and Gion with the potato gun during the PEI road trip, 2000. Some pieces of material explain themselves.20260901_120216.jpg
Brian in the wake at Johnny's family beach - heaven
Brian in the water off Johnny Coffin’s family beach in PEI, 2000 — an accidental early photograph of the narrator literally in a wake.20260901_120224.jpg
Brian in the wake at Johnny's family beach - heaven
Another frame from the PEI beach, 2000. Kept in the album rather than used to make the story’s wake metaphor literal.20260901_120237.jpg
Gion and Sandy on the PEI trip
Gion and Sandy on the PEI trip. Johnny's House, PEI, 2000.20260901_120256.jpg
Me with another fresh lobster
Me with another fresh lobster. Johnny's House, PEI, 2000.20260901_120310.jpg
Gion, Brian and Johnny after too much box wine BEFORE the wedding! This is me after mounting a valiant resistance.
Gion, Brian and Johnny after too much box wine before the wedding during the PEI trip, 2000.20260901_120329.jpg
Pere Lefebvre statue seen while on PEI road trip - any connection?
Pere Lefebvre statue seen while on PEI road trip - any connection?. Johnny's House, PEI, 2000.20260901_120346.jpg
04
1999–2004

Victoria and Naval Training · 2001

Damage-control school, MARS training, Thailand, Vancouver, Tofino and the friendships surrounding the summer when Brian’s life changed direction.

11 photographs
Gion Marles and Nick Wolosczuk
Gion Marles and Nick Wolosczuk. At Damage Control School in Colwood; on MARS II training, 2001.20260901_120356.jpg
two thai hosts and Janan Sutherland and Me
Brian with travelling companions on the train from Bangkok toward southern Thailand, 2001 — a major trip made with friends after the end of his first gay relationship.20260901_120418.jpg
the travel buddies snorkelling off Koh Samui
the travel buddies snorkelling off Koh Samui. Thailand, 2001.20260901_120430.jpg
On the way to a snorkeling adventure - brian, josh, host, janan
On the way to a snorkeling adventure - brian, josh, host, janan. Thailand, 2001.20260901_120452.jpg
me at the floating market in my lameo navy hat
me at the floating market in my lameo navy hat. Floating Market, Bangkok, 2001.20260901_120507.jpg
awesome place we stayed one night - deep in a valley we stayed in a series of off the grid floating cabins… I remember the monkeys howling and playing in the tress.
awesome place we stayed one night - deep in a valley we stayed in a series of off the grid floating cabins… I remember the monkeys howling and playing in the tress. Off the Grid in Thailand, 2001.20260901_120520.jpg
Me on a boat in Thailand
Me on a boat in Thailand. Thailand, 2001.20260901_120534.jpg
Brian
Brian. Jericho Beach, Vancouver, 2001.20260901_120548.jpg
Brian
Brian. Island near Tofino BC, 2001.20260901_120558.jpg
janan, brian, josh
janan, brian, josh. Thailand, 2001.20260901_120616.jpg
Janan, Brian and others from the trip
Thailand, 2001. A rafting excursion ended with a memorable walk out through leech country — sandals proved to be a poor strategic choice.20260901_120631.jpg
05
1999–2004

Graduation, Port Calls and the Road

The transition from cadet to naval officer: RMC graduation, MARS IV, Toronto, long drives and the friends who kept appearing at every turn.

8 photographs
Brian
Approaching Toronto during MARS IV training, 2003 — still smiling before a famously eventful port call and an emergency rescue of Brian’s white naval uniform in Sarnia.20260901_120709.jpg
Brian
NOTC Venture, Victoria, 2003. A well-practised salute after completing MARS IV and qualifying as a naval officer.20260901_120728.jpg
Gion, Nathan and Sandra
Gion, Nathan and Sandra. Boacaygeon, ON - Gion's cottage, c. 2000.20260901_120740.jpg
Brian and Jolene
Brian and Jolene. RMC Grad Ball, Kingston ON, 2003.20260901_120755.jpg
Brenda, Brian, George
Brenda, Brian and George at Brian’s RMC academic graduation, 2003.20260901_120813.jpg
Leah and Brian
Leah and Brian. Malahat Drive, 2004.20260901_120824.jpg
Krista, Sue Ellen MacGowan, Brian and Leah
Krista, Sue Ellen MacGowan, Brian and Leah in San Francisco, 2004. After the long drive, the road warriors rallied for a night of gay clubbing.20260901_120834.jpg
Brian and Leah
Brian and Leah. Universal Studios LA, 2004.20260901_120844.jpg
06
1999–2004

HMCS Calgary and the Wider World

A junior officer at sea: the Indian Ocean, Dubai, Sydney, dolphins in the wake and the strange combination of discipline, travel and awe that came with a first major deployment.

12 photographs
Brian
Brian. Outside Dubai, 2004.20260901_120907.jpg
HMCS deckcrew and DOLPHINS
A pod of dolphins alongside HMCS Calgary in the Indian Ocean, 2004, jumping through the ship’s wake.20260901_120918.jpg
HMCS deckcrew and DOLPHINS
Another view of dolphins playing in HMCS Calgary’s wake in the Indian Ocean, 2004.20260901_120939.jpg
Brian
Brian. somehere in the Indian Ocean, 2004.20260901_120929.jpg
view of HMCS Calgary on deck during the final approach to Sydney Harbour
view of HMCS Calgary on deck during the final approach to Sydney Harbour. approaching Sydney, 2004.20260901_120952.jpg
Nav O from the Calgary, Jon Simard-Mercier and Me
The Calgary navigation officer, Jonathan Simard-Mercier and Brian at the naval officer academy in Sydney, 2004. Jonathan had been part of the awkward morning after Sean Horlor in 2001; by then he and Brian were friends and shipmates.20260901_121004.jpg
wardroom of the HMCS Calgary
wardroom of the HMCS Calgary. near Dubai, 2004.20260901_121018.jpg
Brian and A Camel!
Brian and A Camel!. near Dubai, 2004.20260901_121030.jpg
Brian
Brian. near Dubai, 2004.20260901_121056.jpg
Brian, Aussie Navel Cadets, Todd Verge (shipmate from Calgary - my crush)
Brian, Aussie Navel Cadets, Todd Verge (shipmate from Calgary - my crush). Sydney, AU, 2004.20260901_121108.jpg
Brian
Brian. Sydney, AU, 2004.20260901_121117.jpg
Krista, Sue Ellen MacGowan, Brian and Leah
Krista, Sue Ellen MacGowan, Brian and Leah. Universal Studios LA, 2004.20260901_121129.jpg
07
1999–2004

The West Coast Family

Victoria and Vancouver Island as home: beaches, road trips, friends, weddings, laughter and the chosen family that remained after the formal training years were over.

11 photographs
Brian
Brian at Mystic Beach on Vancouver Island, c. 2004 — one of the places that came to feel like pure West Coast home.20260901_121222.jpg
Sandy and Brian
Sandy and Brian. Mount Doug, Victoria BC, c. 2004.20260901_121231.jpg
Sue Ellen and Brian
Sue Ellen and Brian. Dallas Road, Vic, BC, c. 2004.20260901_121243.jpg
Leah and Michael Lefebvre
Leah and Michael Lefebvre. Hot Springs Island, Tofino, 2004.20260901_121253.jpg
Brian and Leah
Brian and Leah at Butchart Gardens, 2004, on one of many West Coast adventures.20260901_121315.jpg
Sean Frankham and Brian
Sean Frankham and Brian. Montreal, 2004.20260901_121334.jpg
Josh W Stewart
Josh W Stewart. En route somewhere on a logging road, c. 2004.20260901_121349.jpg
HMCS Calgary and RHIB deployed from the air by the embedeed Sea King and flight crew on a sov pat
HMCS Calgary and RHIB deployed from the air by the embedeed Sea King and flight crew on a sov pat. middle of nowhere, Vancouver Island, c. 2004.20260901_121416.jpg
orca
orca. middle of nowhere, Vancouver Island, c. 2004.20260901_121438.jpg
Sean Horlor, Yannick Laplante, Josh Stewart
Sean Horlor, Yannick Laplante and Josh Stewart on Dallas Road in Victoria, 2004. By then Brian and Sean had rekindled a friendship.20260901_121452.jpg
Johnny Coffin - Ass Pinata's Ass
Johnny Coffin’s wedding in Playa del Carmen, 2004, represented here by the rear end of an unfortunately memorable piñata.20260901_121632.jpg